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Challenge Your ABS

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I’m going to be honest – I don’t like crunches.  I’m actually not crazy about working on my abs at all.  It’s the worst part of my workout.  Once I learned that the uncomfortable sessions that make me want to quit were the ones that got me results, I started hating working my core, but especially the crunches.  There are plenty of ‘maintaining’ exercises that I don’t mind, like toe taps, side plank, etc…but crunches?? Oh no.

So, I started looking up videos to give me a little variety – and I’ve found some incredible ones that make ‘crunching’ a little less miserable, although, I’d still prefer to skip that part.  (Of course I’m going to tell you my favorites are from FITNESS BLENDER!  No, I am not paid to advertise for them, they just freakin’ rock!  Go see for yourself!)

Home workouts are great.  Except, you have to be your own personal trainer.  Which is all fine and good until you realize you’ve been doing something wrong.  When you are your own coach – you have to PAY CLOSE ATTENTION to the instructor/instructions.  Always keep your ears open while following the motions – don’t just watch and copy.  You might not have it right.

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There are all kinds of things to listen for…”Keep your back pressed into the floor” or “Lift your shoulder blades OFF of the ground” or the one that caught me off guard the other day (I am totally ashamed to admit this) “Make sure that belly button is pulled in toward the spine”.  Nope, I hadn’t been doing that.  And boy did it hurt when I started using correct form!  It made a HUGE difference!

I’m not just lecturing you here – just giving a friendly reminder because I screwed up and I want to make sure you avoid my mistakes 🙂  I would like to point out that one of the MAIN reasons I recommend Fitness Blender is for their very clear instructions and awesome guidance…I just let myself get distracted and quit listening fully.

So, because of my poor form, I decided to take it back to Pilates – where I originally learned to keep my ‘belly button drawn in and back pressed to the floor’.  I figured it would help drill it back into my head…we shall see.  Here’s the first video I followed:

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This was truly a ‘killer’.  Boy, my abs were screaming at me by the end.  I’m sure that makes you want to try it, right?  Just take a look – you might really enjoy it 🙂

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What is your favorite OR least favorite ab exercise?

 

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Postpartum ‘Diet’

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Welcome back!

Today’s brief post about ‘a new mother’s diet’ is really just to remind you NOT TO DIET.  You need to recover and not worry about limiting your food intake right now.  Obviously, you don’t want to consume an insane amount of caffeine, sodas, sugars, and sodium, but you shouldn’t skip meals or ‘eat light’ in an effort to lose weight faster.

Get an idea from your doctor of what a healthy amount of calories a day would be for your own situation.  You may be surprised that your idea is lower than what you need at this stage.  Don’t just guess – talk to a professional.  And track it!  Not for weight loss purposes, but for your health –  you could find out you are not consuming enough, especially if breastfeeding which could result in low energy.

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Look to fuel not just to eat.  And by that I mean, choose foods that do more than just fill you up, such as veggies, fruits, grains, oatmeal, and eggs.  And LOTS AND LOTS of WATER!

Here are some ideas from my diet the first few weeks of baby’s life (the healthy things anyway):

Fresh veggies and hummus,

Yogurt and fruit,

Peanut butter, banana & honey sandwich on whole wheat bread – yum!

Oatmeal with dried fruit & nuts

Trail mix – (even made my own at one point)

Hard boiled eggs (for egg salad, to add to a salad or just plain)

Lots and lots of greens – kale, spinach, turnip greens, lettuce, etc.

I ate pita chips and crackers with cheese but I would only recommend this in small portions as the cheese can make you MORE constipated…yikes (I ate entirely way too much cheese after he was born)

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Veggie burgers with lots of spinach, cheese and tomatoes!

Salmon with asparagus and brown rice (or quinoa)

All types of wraps – so easy and so satisfying during those first few weeks

Soups and stews – lentil soup, vegetable beef stew, carrot & potato soup…etc

And of course whole wheat pasta (because it was so easy to whip up) – add mushrooms, olives, beef, you name it!

Have you been there before?  What were some ‘go to’ meals for you?  Was there one thing that you HAD to have?  For me it was bagels and cream cheese – and I’m sorry to say but I do regret that – I ate them WAY too much.

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Have you been following this weeks series for new mothers?  If not, check out my previous posts here:

The Quiet Workout

The Truth About Exercising After Having A Baby

&

How To Lose The Baby Weight

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How To Lose The Baby Weight

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20 MIN A DAY

My guide to losing weight while caring for an infant/toddler:

 

YESTERDAY, we talked about the issues that can arise when attempting to workout after giving birth.  I know how desperate you feel to get back to ‘normal’ after having a baby.  I was affected both mentally any physically and the struggle to get back on track was rough.  I can’t tell you how disappointed I was when I realized my ‘pre-baby’ wardrobe was not going to be an option after my son was born and that I’d have to settle in to my maternity jeans at least for another season.  If you’ve been there or if you’re going through it now, below you’ll find the things I did that actually got be back in regular clothes.

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Sore boobs, back and … ‘ahem’ …??  A light sleeper?  Bladder issues?  Here’s how to handle that:

Forget the HIIT, Insanity, P90x, etc…at least for now.  For all of the issues listed above, I was able to combat the discomfort with things like Pilates and Yoga.  Great for a sleeping baby and great for body pain.  Try alternating between the suggestions below for a full weeks worth of workouts that can all be done at home:

Pilates –

(Grace and Gusto by Ellen Barret, Caroline Sandry…)

Yoga –

(Rondey Yee, Nancy Goodstein, etc)

Fitness Blender –

‘Quiet Cardio’

They offer a variety of ‘low impact’ workouts

Squats –

Squats <— they do more than you think!

Light weight training

(if you’re cleared by Doc )

Here is a very informative article on weights after birth

(Note:  If you have not been active for a while, always view the video prior to actually doing it and definitely consult your doctor.    Pick something you can complete time wise and physically – you’ll feel empowered and be more driven to do it again.  The ‘Don’t quit til you puke, pass out or die’ quotes are NOT for people who haven’t been exercising. (Those are kinda sick quotes anyway). If you were to pass out while baby is sleeping, that is super dangerous.  So, don’t push too hard if you’re a newbie!!  But don’t sit down or take lengthy breaks – keep moving just slow your pace. And remember, if all you can do is 20 minutes – great! 20 minutes a day is 2 hours and 20 minutes a week you spent burning calories!!)

NO BABY-FREE’ TIME?  NO PROBLEM…

2:  Break out the stroller!

Ok, so we’re going to get that cardio in ladies – with baby!!  Put that cutie in the stroller and go for a walk!  My kid was born in the middle of winter – but I didn’t give up my walks! There are all kinds of wonderful inventions out there to keep them warm while you’re out.  I used the stroller, the sling, and the front carrier to make sure I got my walks in. So, summer or winter, take that little one on a walk.  Pushing the stroller gives you added resistance that will help burn a few extra calories.  If it’s too cold/hot – head to the mall and do laps (great idea for early mornings since not many people are there at that time).  For me, I had to work up to a faster pace and longer distance.  So, start small but do a little extra every day.  Add one minute or even just 10 more steps before turning around and heading home.

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3:  Put on a show for baby –

That’s right, fit in a 10, 15 or even 20 minute workout while baby watches.  I LOVED doing this because it made my son laugh to see mommy moving all around.  I did the Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred (which was super hard at the time and I did not make it 30 days – more on this later), but my son thought it was entertaining.  I would put him on one of those ‘Play/Gym’ mats so that he was beside me and could watch everything I was doing.  You may have to stop what you’re doing a few times to adjust your little one but don’t let that stop you!

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4:  Dance –

Oh this one is great!  Babies love it and it definitely works up a sweat!  I danced all around with my son and sang while I did it.  Just be careful not to do jerky movements.  It is a great bonding experience and you’re burning calories while teaching baby rhythm…what’s not to love?  My husband and I also entertained him a lot with dancing all aorund the house while he watched – which was an incredible workout.  Need dance inspiration?  Try belly dance with The Belly Twins ( I LOVED doing belly dancing with Veena!)

On a finishing note:

Obviously naptime is your friend.  Use that time wisely!  My naptime order of importance was as follows: catch up on sleep, workout, cook, clean.  Definitely get the sleep you need, but don’t feel guilty for fitting in a workout instead of washing dishes.  The dishes can wait.

Exercise goes way beyond just getting ‘thin’ again…you are actually doing so much more than JUST LOSING WEIGHT.   You are setting yourself and baby up for success down the road…and I mean from just a few weeks to years down the road.

A happy mama is a happy baby.  A healthy mama is a healthy baby too.

 

Exercising will boost your energy, confidence, ability to fight stress and it will inspire you to eat better.  Obviously, all of that will come in handy with baby/child care.  Exercising also helps you to get a better nights sleep and, lets face it, you need every minute of sleep to count right now.

In addition to all of the positive effects it will have on you, it also creates a healthy atmosphere for baby to grow up in.  SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?

In Review

Any suggestions that I didn’t mention?  Please comment below and let me know your experience!  What was the hardest part of losing weight after baby for you?

Tomorrow I’ll have a brief post on food suggestions for the new mom – so be sure to check back!

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The Truth About Exercising After Having A Baby

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What is it REALLY like to exercise after giving birth??  Allow me to explain…

 

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Picture to the left was taken right after the first contractions were felt. Picture to the right was taken exactly one week after he was born. Unfortunately, the second pic was a starting point from where I gained MORE.

#1:  WORKING OUT WITH ‘MOM BOOBS’ IS PAINFUL

Your boobs are probably larger than normal and super sore (especially if you’re nursing) – jumping is an absolutely miserable experience.  A tight sportsbra works pretty well, but if you have sore boobs, squishing them flat is also extremely uncomfortable.  And the pain that accompanies ‘jumping’ is pretty unbearable – that fact alone made me quit tons of workouts.

#2:  ‘POINT OF IMPACT’ STILL HURTS

If you had a vaginal delivery, your lady parts are still going to hurt for weeks and possibly months after giving birth especially when you do physical exercises like running, lifting anything, jumping, crunches, etc.  For me even walking around the block caused me some discomfort and extra bleeding (sorry to be so graphic!).  I experienced pain for a very long time after delivery especially when I attempted anything physical.

#3:  THERE’S A CHANCE YOU’LL PEE A LITTLE

Truth be told, those high intensity workouts that include jump rope, jumping lunges, running in place, etc…might be more than your post baby bladder can handle. If you’re brave enough to hit up a gym to lose your baby belly, just be prepared.

#4:  IT COULD TAKE NINE MONTHS TO LOSE

I know….this is the worst…and you’re going to hate me for saying it.  But, if it took nine months to put the weight on, chances are it will take another nine to lose it all.  It could be less, could be more but this is a good number to keep in mind.  You’ll have a more realistic idea of expected results and hopefully that will keep you motivated.

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Other noteworthy changes:

Your core is weak – Ab exercises will prove to be slightly more difficult than before, but it is possible to regain strength in your core.  It’s also possible to have visible abs again 🙂

Finding time and energy to workout isn’t easy – New mothers are instructed to ‘sleep when baby sleeps’ so your time for working out will feel limited, especially when you have cooking and cleaning to do in addition to attending to baby.  You will feel EXHAUSTED and working out is not going to rank very high on your ‘to do’ list.  You’ll thank me in a few months for suggesting that you take 20 minutes of naptime to exercise regardless of the condition of your house.

What now??

So, you see you’ve got a slew of possible problems to deal with.  And these are problems that can get in the way and block our progress…if we let them.  But we’re not going to let them.  Tomorrow I will be talking about solutions and listing off a few suggestions from my own personal experience to get you on the fast track to losing the ‘baby fat’!

After everything you’ve been through and are going to go through because of that little bundle of joy, you deserve to have the body you want!  And you’re going to get it if you follow me 😉  See you tomorrow!

What changes did you notice about your body after having a baby?  Are there things that still give you a little trouble?

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Know someone who has recently had a baby?  Please share!  Lets help each other out!

Up next:  ‘How To Lose The Baby Weight’

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The Quiet Workout

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Look Better Naked

At the beginning of last year, I had purchased two pairs of Yoga pants and two workout DVD’s that were ‘guaranteed’ to help me lose the baby weight (according to another mom on some forum).  I got my Yoga pants and was so excited to use them but wanted to wait until the videos arrived.  I had a plan and it felt SO good.  I kept telling myself ‘This weight is coming off ASAP!’

The first DVD came in the mail, (‘Look Better Naked’), and I hurriedly threw on my new yoga pants and popped that sucker in.  I WAS SOOO EXCITED.  I only made it through five minutes.  No, not because it was too intense (it might have been but I only did five minutes, lol).  And not because it’s not a good workout – I’m sure it is.  My problem was that it was LOUD.  Does that sound insane?  Maybe, but my two month old son was down for his nap and woke up the second he heard all of the ‘jumping’.  Can you imagine my disappointment?!

So, I tried again the next day.  I said, “I’ll just do the movements softly”.  Well that didn’t work.  They move entirely way too fast for me to ‘land soft’ and because of my weight and lack of muscles, I had little control over how I landed anyway.  I gave up again around the five minute mark because of the noise I was making.  Isn’t that ridiculous?  But it’s reality.  It would be a good workout…if I had a basement.  But I don’t.  I have a one story house and my living room (where my TV is located) is right in the middle of the house.  I was so frustrated!  I did try it again a few weeks later – the last attempt – and again, it woke my son up.

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My little man right around 2 months old – when I started my workouts

You’re probably thinking, ‘Your kid is a ridiculously light sleeper!’  And he is.  Some of you may have babies that can sleep through an earthquake or fire alarm…but I know there are other moms out there who have a baby that wakes up if the wind blows…like mine does.  So this post is for other mothers who’s precious little one doesn’t want you to get a chance to ‘Look Better Naked’.  We are going to get you there.  I still recommend watching the DVD, even if you can’t go through the motions – you will probably be inspired AND, if there comes a day when you can do it, you will know the moves a little better.

So, last Monday I did my usual cardio routine for about 20 minutes but instead of following it with a 20 minute cool down walk, I decided to try a ‘low impact cardio’ video that I’ve been wanting to review.  And that sparked a few posts on losing weight after giving birth.  (Crazy how that works right?)  What video started this?  It was Fitness Blenders ‘Quiet Cardio Workout’.  And I loved it.

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It is a terrific workout if you are just starting out, have a sleeping baby around, or if you are looking to do a 20 minute cool down after a more intense cardio.  I loved it, my body felt amazing afterwards and I kept thinking, ‘Why didn’t I discover this last year?!’

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Have FUN While Working Out!

(Having a little posting trouble tonight so forgive me if you’ve already seen this!)

Hey everyone!  I wasn’t planning on posting anything today but I was too excited not to share this with you…

I just discovered Jessica Bass Byrge…and let me tell you what, if you haven’t already, you NEED to check her out!  Oh my gosh!  She is so much fun!  Today was my ‘leg day’ so I decided to warm up with one or two of her videos to see what she is all about…and…I loved it!  Definitely works  your core and quads a lot, but it feels great and it’s a ton of fun!  What’s not to love about a fun workout?



I’m sharing the most popular video of hers, ‘Dark Horse’, (it pops up everywhere), but I have not tried this one..it looks intense.  I really wanted to include her ‘Proud Mary’ one but it wouldn’t let me add it for some reason 😦  So, go check that out when you get a chance!

Trouble viewing the video?  Check her out on Facebook:  Dance Fitness with Jessica.  Or, check out her site and order a DVD (in case your phone or internet has trouble viewing videos):  Dancefitnesswithjessica.com  I bet you’ll enjoy these!

 

If you try it, let me know what you think!  I love hearing from you!

 

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Goals…

Happy Monday Everyone! 

I talk about goals A LOT, but today I want to talk about the fun ones…summer goals!  What is not to love about writing down everything you want to do this summer?!  Keep the DIY home projects off this list…you can make a separate one for those.  I want you to focus on the JOYS of summer and how you can get the most out of it this year – after all, you deserve it!  This is fun and easy exercise…all you need is a pen, paper and five or ten minutes.

To help get you started, I’m sharing my own summer bucket list:

Summer Goals

Feeling inspired?  I can hardly contain my excitement to get started!  Actually, I’ve already started:  I painted my nails last night – bright orange!  And my living room is in the process of being ‘re-done’!  So, what are you waiting for?  Go start your list!!!

 

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What is the Best Workout for My Body?

I absolutely loved this! Please take a moment to check it out. A lot of great points are made here. Thanks Zander Gladish for a terrific post!

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HASfit Stretching

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Found this video yesterday after my workout and LOVED it!  This guy has really great energy!  Thought I’d share it with my fellow Superwomen…

I wish the stretches were longer than 15 seconds – buy hey, I’m not sore today so it must have worked fine.  I know it is kind of a beginner routine but it’s always good to refresh our knowledge of stretching.  You might learn new stretches or you might learn how to do the ones you do know better.

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Taking A Break

Today is all about taking it easy!  I just wanted to remind all my beautiful Superwomen out there that your body needs that rest day!  I used to get antsy on my rest days and just wanted to be doing something.  I felt like if I took a day off, everything I had worked for would disappear (ridiculous, I know).  Of course that’s not true – we actually need rest to get better results!  I don’t have to force myself to take a day off anymore, I welcome them with open arms!

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*But only for 15minutes unless I am LOADED with SPF!!! Gotta protect that skin, ladies!

But for those of you who have  a hard time getting your brains and bodies to ‘chill out’, here’s my advice:  find a distraction!  Go shopping, go to the pool (which is a sneaky way to stay active on your rest day), just go somewhere!  Reading a magazine or surfing the web on my chill day DID NOT help me.  Just sitting still made me want to move more so I found that staying slightly active helped tremendously.

Sometimes just a walk around the mall or a lap in the pool is enough movement to get that ‘antsy’ feeling out of your system 🙂  Low cardio on your day off is fine, you just don’t want to do ANOTHER HIIT, or overwork your arms, legs or back at the gym.  So whatever you spend your rest day doing, just keep in mind that you are doing your body a huge favor, and it will repay you!

Have a fabulous Thursday!

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